We experience the world through our five senses, sight, smell, hearing, touch, and taste. Sensory feelings can enhance stimulation and feelings, and enhance the sexual experience. So how can we mobilize our sensory feelings to make our sex more exciting and fun?
What is sensory play?
Sensory play is about exploring and enhancing your feelings to make sex exciting and fun. Or by depriving yourself of one feeling to enhance other sensory feelings. Examples include blindfolding, wearing earplugs, and wearing latex tights.
Sensory play can be as gentle or rough as you like. Sensory play allows you to focus more on your feelings and learn what sensations you prefer.
1. Blindfolds
Blindfolding is one of the simplest, most direct ways to heighten stimulation and tension. It enhances other sensory stimulation by depriving the visual senses, and can be combined with other games to make sex more intense. If you don't have a specialized eye mask, you can substitute it with items from your daily life, such as a sleep mask, tie, scarf, belt, etc.
2. Temperature game
Our body has a strong sense of temperature, both cold and hot. If you like the feeling of cold, you can try the ice cube game, try the feeling of an ice cube sliding down over your body, or put an ice cube in your mouth and kiss your partner. If you like hot sensations, try cryogenic candles, choose specialized cryogenic candles to avoid injuries.
You can also try putting sex toys in ice or hot water, glass or stainless steel sex toys that have better heat conductivity for better results. Before trying to use it, you can measure the temperature on the back of your hand to avoid burns or frostbite.
3. Erotic audio
Erotic audio can be a great way to use your imagination, allowing you to enter into a situation and explore your sexual fantasies in a better way. If you want to enhance this experience, you can listen to erotic audio during sex, try role-playing with your partner, talk dirty, and so on.
4. Bondage
If you're into bondage play, it's important to educate yourself, as well as understand the risks to ensure your own safety. If you're going to start experimenting with your partner, make sure your partner agrees and set up a safety word.
Bondage will rob you of the ability to touch your partner, but you'll certainly get a kick out of it and be forced to accept whatever stimulating sensations your partner brings. Combined with a blindfold, this can lead to even more stimulation and excitement. Try starting with simple hand and foot bondage, in the beginning cold handcuffs may not bring about nice feelings. You can choose bondage tape, or furry handcuffs and other more gentle way.
5. ASMR
ASMR brings great auditory sensations and stimulation that will bring relaxation, relieve stress, and even arouse sexual desire. Examples include gasps, mattress squeaks, whispers, and the sound of caressing skin. This will not only make people feel excited, play with your imagination, explore sexual fantasies and so on.
6. Impact Play
Shock play involves trying to use your hands or tools, trying to whip or be whipped. This is a game between pleasure and pain, so it is important to grasp the scale, if you are both interested in this, to learn to control the intensity, you can start from the palm of the hand, or the whipper, can be aimed at the buttocks, thighs, breasts, back and so on.
7. Food
Food can not only bring wonderful taste enjoyment, but also increase in sex, bring more fun to sex life. For example, cream, ice cream, etc., coated in the partner's sensitive areas, and then licked clean.
8. Mirror sex
Putting a full-length mirror in the bedroom can make sex more exciting and add a sense of excitement. You can also better observe your partner's reactions and feelings, and will be shy, excited, enjoy the pleasure of your partner's expression through the bottom of the eye. There are some sex positions that are not able to observe the expression of the partner, such as the rear entry. A full-length mirror can be very helpful for those who want to observe their partner's expression and increase the excitement of sex.
9. Add scent
Scent can bring a good sense of smell, can start from the daily toiletries, such as shampoo, shower gel, conditioner, cream, moisturizer, laundry detergent, etc., if you feel inadequate, you can also spray on the favorite perfume. Or scented massage oil, lubricants and condoms.
10. Try sex toys
Want to add more excitement and take your sexual experience to new heights? Then sex toys are your choice, and vibrators have a large proportion in sex toys. Because the vibrator can not only free hands, save energy, whether you have a partner or not, can be very good to enhance the sexual experience.