It is well known that better stimulation and enjoyment is achieved by combining the five senses of stimulation, such as sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. So what does it mean to make sounds during sex?
1. Heavy breathing
Deep breathing during sex will give us a more pleasurable feeling and promote us to have an orgasm. Heavy breathing is a pleasurable and moving sound during sex, and it is also a sign to your partner that you are feeling pleasure and are about to reach orgasm.
2. Moaning
Moans are very common during sex, and are a sound that expresses pleasure, as well as a good affirmation and feedback to your partner to keep doing things that make each other happy. So please don't skimp on your voice during sex, it will make sex more exciting and exhilarating.
3. Panting
A gasp is actually a breathing sound, which is not only a response to physical stimulation, but also an expression of the desire to want more of whatever you are doing or about to do.
4. Screams
Screams are usually an expression of fear and shock, but of course they can also be a great way to release our stress and tension in a way that improves our mood. Screaming during sex is an expression of pleasure and excitement, for example if you are in the middle of an intense orgasm. If you are feeling depressed in your daily life, then becoming a screamer during sex is a great way to release stress.
5. Praise
Complimenting your partner during sex is not only a great way to give your partner a nice affirmation, but it also lets your partner know that they are doing the right thing and increases the feelings of mutual pleasure. After all, no one dislikes receiving compliments, and don't skimp on your compliments, which can increase intimacy with your partner.
Give your partner words of affirmation instead of giving orders, which can cause your partner a great deal of stress and anxiety. Affirmations can give your partner a good indication of what you like, what turns you on and better repetition of doing pleasurable things. It can give you more of what you want and need.
6. Laughing
Yes, sometimes we laugh during sex, for example if we are embarrassed, shy or something funny happens during sex. Of course there are other reasons, such as feeling happy, safe and satisfied during sex, and it's a way of expressing our pleasure - after all, there's no better way to do that than to laugh.
7. Talking dirty
Talking dirty in your partner's ear can be a quick way to ignite each other's libido and increase mutual excitement and stimulation. Not just in the bedroom, try outside the bedroom for example by sending erotic text messages, phone calls, telling your partner what you want to do to her, or what you want him to do to you, and so on. By doing this, you can increase the excitement, tension and anticipation for sex and make it fun.
Talking dirty in the bedroom is fun and can ignite desires and fantasies, while talking dirty is also a way of encouraging each other and helping to better tap into each other's dirty side. And talking dirty is a great way to express your desires.
If you feel pleasure during sex that turns you on, don't skimp on your voice, no matter what form it takes. Of course you can also talk to your partner about each other's favorite sounds, ways to make each other more aroused, etc.
What can make sex bad?
Silence: if you, or your partner, don't make a bit of noise during sex, or even hate making noise during sex. For example, sex makes her/him feel guilty, fearful or anxious. This is very bad and it can ruin the passion and atmosphere of sex with each other. Silent sex can make your partner feel like they're not doing a good job or that they can't please you, which can be frustrating for your partner. Not making any noise during sex does not allow your partner to get any positive feedback from you.
Faking an orgasm: faking an orgasm is a terrible thing to do during sex, and it's not just women who do it, but men as well. People fake orgasms for different reasons, such as wanting to get it over with quickly, to please their partner, and to avoid hurting their partner's self-esteem and feelings. But this is often counterproductive, and can ruin not only your pleasure during sex, but also your relationship with your partner.
Faking an orgasm is a deceptive behavior in itself, which can make your partner feel hurt and destroy mutual trust and intimacy. And faking an orgasm doesn't help your sexual experience in any way, and in the long run it can keep you from being satisfied during sex, which is very bad. And sometimes, faking an orgasm is very flamboyant, which is a way of signaling your insincerity like your partner.