Whether you are single or with a partner, sex toys definitely bring more excitement and fun. This is because it can bring different feelings and vibrational stimulation, and thanks to the growth of the sex toy industry, we also have a wider variety of toys to choose from that cater for different needs and feelings.
Although the use of toys has become more and more commonplace, but it is still very common to use the wrong way, the next will introduce the common wrong way to help you better.
1. Ignoring the instructions
For example, the vast majority of vibrators come with an instruction manual, but the excitement and thrill of being parceled out often causes us to overlook the importance of the manual, and throwing away the original packaging of the product can make maintenance more difficult.
The manual allows us to understand the basic operation of the toy, the functions and buttons, charging methods, and precautions, etc., so that we can get started faster and avoid problems with the toy due to improper operation. It is important to know whether the toy is waterproof or not, and it can also determine how we clean it.
2. Not cleaning toys properly
Whether before or after using the toy, cleaning is quite an important part. Because if the liquid remains on the surface of the toy, it will not only increase the possibility of bacterial and inflammatory infections, but also the residual liquid can breed bacteria, destroy the material and even damage the toy.
You can use water and a mild soap, for cleaning, preferably not a scented soap. Of course if your toy does not contain a motor and is made of silicone, stainless steel or borate glass, you can boil the toy to sterilise it further. Using specialised toy cleaning products is a more expensive but convenient and hassle-free way to clean your toys, such as toy cleaning spray and toy cleaning wipes. Especially, if you feel tired after an orgasm, cleaning wipes can be an effective alternative for simple cleaning.
3. Mixing toys
Sex toys themselves are very healthy and safe, and if you use them alone you don't have to worry about the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. However, it is important to note that you should not use toys that are used in the anus and put them in the vagina, as this can increase the risk of inflammation and bacterial infections. For health and safety reasons it's best not to do this, but if you must, put a condom over the toy each time you use it, which can be very effective in reducing the risk and making cleaning easier.
4. Sharing toys with others
Sharing toys with other people has sexually transmitted diseases that increase the risk of bacterial and inflammatory infections if they are not cleaned in a timely manner, or if they are protected. Although these viruses and bacteria cannot survive in the air for a long time, there is no need to take risks for this.
5. Wrong use of lubricants
Although the vagina produces lubrication on its own, more lubricant can bring a smoother feeling and reduce the discomfort or pain caused by friction. Lubricants are also the best choice if you want to try other types of sexual activity or have longer sex. However, not all types of lubricants are safe for toys.
For example, common types of lubricants are, water-based lubricants, silicone-based lubricants and oil-based lubricants.
- Water-based lubricants: The most widely used lubricants are suitable for most sexual activities, do not react with any sex toy or condom material, and are easy to clean. Water-based lubricants, however, tend to dry out easily and can be washed away by water.If you want to have sex for a long time, you will need to reapply it again and again.
- Silicone-based lubricants: Provide a longer-lasting smoothness for long sessions and are not washed away by water, which also makes them more difficult to clean. However, it should be noted that silicone-based lubricants can react with silicone toys and cause damage.
- Oil-based lubricants: If you want to try anal sex, oil-based lubricants are perfect. However, this type of lubricant can react with condoms and toys made of many materials, causing them to be damaged, and it is also not suitable for use in the vagina, disrupting the balance of flora in the vagina and increasing the risk of bacterial and inflammatory infections.
6. Improper storage
Storage of sex toys is important, not only for our health but also for the life of the toy. After cleaning your sex toys and making sure they are thoroughly dry, store them in a cool, dry place out of direct sunlight using a special storage bag. It is important to note that toys should not be stored naked and mixed together, as this can lead to cross-contamination, which can be detrimental to the longevity of the toy.