What Is Corporal Punishment?
Haven't heard the term before? Corporal punishment is a general term for punishing someone. Traditionally, it is most often used when talking about spanking a child. In those terrible old days, innocent children were labeled "disciplined" by those who were supposed to be taking care of them, such as babysitters or school teachers. I don't agree with the practice myself, but I know that for some reason it is still controversial in some circles to be strongly opposed to it. Spanking may be administered with the hand while the person is above the knee, or with some form of instrument such as a slipper, belt, branch, cane or ruler.
As is so often the case in adult perverted sexual interests, totally wrong, immoral and unethical activities in non-consensual environments are made enticing, desirable and exciting by consenting adults. An adult submitting to a knee spanking by another adult is so different from most people's expectations of adult behavior and daily life that the intrinsic shock value becomes part of the perverse satisfaction of the activity. In addition, no matter how much physical pain is endured, the punishment element of voluntarily being spanked can be psychologically satisfying, resulting in a lasting sense of catharsis that is almost addictive.
The Types We Love
Now that I've covered the nature and appeal of corporal punishment, let's dive into what type of sexy corporal punishment my partner and I prefer, and the reasons behind why we like it.Over The Knee (OTK) Hand Spanking
I willingly posed, exposing my bare backside as a sign of submission, and let him stare intently at me. It was an exciting mix of feelings, both wickedly depraved and strangely righteous. As his hand smacked my ass with a crisp thud, I experienced a confluence of emotions-a mixture of sensations that transcended the momentary pain and unleashed a deeper level of satisfaction.Pussy Spanks
He skillfully spanked my private parts with the palm of his hand in a manner reminiscent of a traditional over-the-knee spanking. While not as powerful as a spanking, these quick blows were effective. They would occasionally land on the edge of my clitoris or hit it directly, causing intense stimulation, especially when I was in the proper state of mind and fully aroused. In addition, he would simultaneously insert his fingers inside me to reduce the intensity and discomfort of the stimulation, thus ensuring that I was in a constant state of arousal and allowing me to tolerate the violent spankings.
Flogging
We prefer caning to whipping because hitting a few tails instead of one feels less vicious, but also gives a small satisfaction. Personally, I don't like canes either! I particularly like the whooshing sound a multi-tailed flogging cane makes as it moves through the air, especially when my companion swings it quickly with a stinging blow.The flogging cane is versatile and the tail can be tapped on the skin or gently dragged across the skin, making it perfect for warming up. In addition, gentle use of the flogging cane after a more intense spanking or whacking adds a sense of torturous cruelty and prolongs the kinky pleasure of arousal and sensual stimulation.
What We Get Out Of It
Our sexy corporal punishment sessions are about more than just having alternative sex. While there's nothing wrong with that, it's not the only purpose for my partner and me. We've found that digging deeper into our desire for sexy spanking in spaces as varied as the bedroom to the kitchen adds spark to our romantic relationship. Embracing each other's kinks has allowed us to go beyond the traditional approach to sex and seek deeper fulfillment both physically and psychologically.
Preparation For Corporal Punishment
Preparing for sexy corporal punishment requires both physical and mental preparation, just like any intimate activity. Active consent is fundamental and there should never be a sense of pressure or obligation. Personally, mental preparation is crucial to my enjoyment and satisfaction during a spanking.
Practical considerations are also critical. Is there enough time available? Rushing into a spanking can hinder the ability to relax and be fully engaged. A conducive environment is necessary, including privacy, noise level and space. While silent sex can be pleasurable, spanking and similar activities naturally elicit an auditory response, making a completely quiet environment challenging.
It's also important to make sure all necessary items are within reach for convenience and safety. Spanking implements, towels, wipes, soothing creams, lubricants, sex toys, and bondage tools should all be at hand. Of course, developing safety phrases and using traffic signals for clear communication during training are safety measures that should not be overlooked.
The Importance Of Aftercare
After enduring the intense stimulation of his spankings, I would often find myself at my most vulnerable and sensitive. My skin would ache and sometimes bruise, while inside I was torn between physical discomfort and psychological fulfillment. This is when aftercare becomes very important.At this stage, the physical injury and emotional exposure often leaves me in tears. From tears streaming silently down my cheeks to deep sobs, these emotions are all part of the cathartic journey I have voluntarily begun.
Like guiding a hypnotherapy client back to reality, after intense physical punishment, I would find myself in a trance-like state, suspended between clearing pain and high arousal, and realizing that it was happening every day. His gentle touch, comforting hugs and soothing words were vital to my return to reality, allowing me to realign my mind and body.
It is important that people cannot go through profound emotional and psychological experiences without comfort, reassurance and support to guide them back. Post-operative care is an integral part of the healing process and is just as important as our favorite corporal punishment.