Although we often see wearable dildos in movies, in practice, they may not be quite what we imagined. Today, there are a variety of, different sizes, shapes, and colors of wearable dildos on the market for different needs. If you've never tried one before, it can be a little intimidating.
Wearable dildos have a wide range of uses, and you can use it for as long as you like, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. It can be used not only for penetrative sex with your partner, but also for masturbation.
If you want to try using a wearable dildo but are not sure if your partner likes it. You can start by communicating with your partner about their preferences, boundaries as well as asking them appropriately about their interest in sex toys. If your partner is interested, you can introduce the wearable dildo further.
Want to get better at using a wearable dildo? This article will cover how to pick one and how to clean it.
What is a wearable dildo?
A wearable dildo is a combination of a dildo and a strap-on, which is attached to the strap-on, usually at the pelvic bone. It can often be used for penetrative sex with a partner, or for masturbation. It also helps to alleviate performance anxiety and gender dysphoria.
Nowadays, wearable dildos are also strapped to the thighs as well as to the face to facilitate friction or better penetration by the partner. There are even special fabrics and features such as placing bullet vibrators for added stimulation.
What do I need to be aware of when buying a wearable dildo?
Wearable dildos have a wide range of applicability due to the fact that they are available regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, and size, which makes it more difficult to pick the right toy for you. And wearable dildos, which are usually expensive, require even more careful consideration.
- Understanding Preferences:The first thing you need to consider is what makes you feel sexy and comfortable, and understanding the categories of wearable dildos helps you to better understand as well as make a choice. Leather strap-ons are the most classic choice, but of course your own preference and comfort is a priority. Measuring your waist, hips as well as thighs will allow you to better find the right toy for your size, narrowing down your choices and facilitating the selection of the right one for you.
- Material: The safety of the dildo's material is very important, choose non-porous materials, for example, 100% silicone, stainless steel and glass materials, very safe, will not let the body fluid residue, and easier to clean. Porous materials, on the other hand, increase the risk of bacterial and inflammatory infections. Different materials have different firmness and bring different feelings, and knowing your partner's preference can bring more comfort. Silicone is the best for newbies because it has a soft and real touch and won't hurt your partner by being too hard.
- Size: Size is also a point that affects comfort, know the size that makes each other feel comfortable. It is important to note that the larger the size, the more pleasurable the sensation.
- Shopping: There are two main ways to buy sex toys today, one is to store at offline stores and the other is to store at online stores. If you want to get a closer look, touch the toy or want to get it faster, you can choose to store at offline stores. If you are shy about buying sex toys offline, shopping online nowadays has more toys, a variety of them, which is beneficial for you to find what you like, and you can realize that you can receive your package without leaving your home, and most of the stores use discreet shipment, which can protect your privacy well.
How do I use a wearable dildo?
No matter what new things you want to try in the bedroom, you need to know your partner's preferences Plan ahead while getting the hang of it and practicing properly.
While there is no absolute right or wrong technique for using a strap-on - after all, everyone feels differently and what works for someone else may not necessarily work for you - here are some tips to better help you.
Try a wearable dildo to find what feels comfortable and familiar to you, and adjust the straps to find a position that makes you comfortable. Take your time in the beginning and try some exercises. There is no need for you to act like a pro in the beginning. After becoming familiar with it, you can be very creative, for example, by adding vibrators or BDSM props.